From Passion to Published: How to Turn Your Message on Love and Marriage into a Book

If you feel called to write about marriage, love, and faith, you’re in great company. So many Christian writers have a message burning in their hearts but aren't sure how to bring it to life in a book. Maybe you’ve experienced God’s faithfulness in your own relationship and want to encourage others. Or perhaps you’ve counseled couples and have wisdom to share. Whatever your story, writing a book is a powerful way to make a lasting impact.

But where do you start? How do you shape your message in a way that truly helps people? And what’s the best way to publish and share it with those who need it most?

Let’s break it down step by step.

1. Know Your Why and Who

Before you start writing, take a moment to reflect. Why are you writing this book? Who is it for? Are you speaking to newlyweds, couples facing challenges, or singles preparing for marriage? Understanding your audience will guide everything—your tone, content, and structure.

Ask yourself:

  • What struggles or questions does my audience have?
  • How can I share my experience in a way that serves them?
  • What biblical principles do I want to highlight?

2. Create a Clear Outline

A strong outline helps bring focus to your book. Think of it as a roadmap that keeps you on track. Here’s a simple structure to consider:

  • Introduction: Share why you wrote this book and what you hope readers will gain.
  • Core Chapters: Cover key themes like communication, trust, faith, and love.
  • Practical Takeaways: Give readers ways to apply what they’ve learned—discussion questions, journaling prompts, or exercises.
  • Conclusion: Wrap up with encouragement and a call to action.

3. Keep It Real and Rooted in Scripture

People don't just want advice—they want authenticity. Share personal stories, struggles, and victories. Let your readers see how God has worked in your life or the lives of others. But always stay biblically grounded—scripture should be the foundation of your book.

4. Make It Engaging and Encouraging

Writing a book is all about connecting with your readers. Write in a conversational, down-to-earth tone. Imagine you’re sitting across from a friend, sharing what’s on your heart. Avoid sounding overly formal or preachy. Keep it warm, inviting, and full of grace.

5. Polish Your Message

Once your draft is done, take time to refine it. Read it aloud. Ask trusted friends, mentors, or our editors at Lucid Books for feedback. A well-edited book isn't just easier to read—it’s more powerful and impactful.

6. Choose the Best Publishing Path for You

Now comes the big decision—how will you publish your book? You have a few options:

  • Traditional Publishing: If you go this route, you’ll need to submit a proposal and wait for acceptance from a publishing house.
  • Self-Publishing: This allows you to retain full control and move at your own pace.
  • Partnership Publishing: You’re in the right place! That’s exactly what we do here at Lucid Books. Our  model offers a hybrid publishing model that blends the best of both worlds—giving you professional support while keeping you in charge of your book.

7. Share Your Book with the World

Once your book is published, it’s time to get it into the hands of those who need it. 

Consider:

  • Speaking at churches or events
  • Starting a blog or podcast
  • Connecting with online communities
  • Sharing on social media

Final Encouragement

Writing a book about love and marriage is all about changing lives. Your message matters. Your story can bring hope, healing, and faith to couples searching for guidance. Keep going, trust the process, and know that what you’re creating has the potential to bless generations.

Happy writing! 

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